Harish Raghavendra – Kumudam Coverage of his Marriage Life
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பேட்டி : சந்துரு
மனைவியிடம் வரதட்சணை கேட்டுக் கொடுமை; இன்னொரு பெண்ணுடன் தொடர்பு என்றெல்லாம் மனைவி உமாதேவியின் அதிரடிப் புகார்களால், ஆறாத துன்பத்திலிருக்கிறார் பின்னணிப் பாடகர் ஹரீஷ் ராகவேந்திரா.
‘‘கண்பேசும் வார்த்தைகள் புரிவதில்லை’’ என்று பாடியவர், இன்று வாழ்க்கையின் போக்குப் புரியாமல் கோர்ட் படிகளில் ஏறி இறங்கிக்கொண்டிருக்கிறார்.
என்னதான் பிரச்னை? ஹரீஷ் ராகவேந்திராவிடம் கேட்டோம்.
‘‘மலேசியா _ கோலாலம்பூரில் ஒரு நிகழ்ச்சியில் பாட நான் போயிருந்த போதுதான், உமாதேவியைச் சந்தித்தேன். நான் இங்கு வந்த பிறகும் போனிலும் ஈ_மெயிலிலும் பேசிக்கொள்வோம். உமாதேவி அங்குள்ள ஒரு கம்பெனியில் உயர் பதவியில் இருந்ததால், கம்பெனி புராஜெக்ட் ஒர்க்கிற்காக சென்னை வரும்போது, என் வீட்டிற்குக் கூட்டிப் போயிருக்கேன். மலேசியா போனால் நானும் அவர் வீட்டிற்குப் போவேன். இப்படியாக வளர்ந்த எங்கள் காதல் திருமணத்தில் வந்து நின்றது.
2003 ஆகஸ்ட் 20_ம் தேதி எங்களுக்கு அண்ணாநகரிலுள்ள ஒரு மண்டபத்தில் திருமணம் நடந்தது. வடபழனியிலுள்ள ஒரு ஃபிளாட்டை வாடகைக்கு எடுத்து, அவர் ஆசைப்படியே தனிக்குடித்தனம் போனோம்.
மலேசியாவில் அவங்க வீட்டு கலாசாரம் எப்படின்னா மூன்று வேளையும் ஹோட்டலுக்குப் போய்விடுவார்கள். இதனால் நான் சமைக்கச் சொன்னால், வேண்டா வெறுப்பாகச் செய்வார். சம்பாதிப்பது போதும், வீட்டைப் பார்த்துக்கொள் என்று நான் எவ்வளவோ சொல்லியும், ‘வேலைக்குப் போயே தீருவேன்’ என்று பிடிவாதமாக இருந்தார்.
நான் ரெக்கார்டிங்கை முடித்துவிட்டு வீட்டிற்கு வந்தால், வீடே அலங்கோலமாக இருக்கும். இரண்டு நாள் முன்பு குடித்த காபி கப் ஈ மொய்த்துக் கொண்டு அங்கேயே இருக்கும். அதை எடுத்துக் கழுவிப் போடமாட்டார். அது பற்றிக் கேட்டால், உடனே காச்மூச்னு சத்தம் போட்டுக் குதிப்பார். ‘எனக்கு இங்குள்ள சட்டம் தெரியும். நீங்க வரதட்சணை கேட்டு என்னை டார்ச்சர் பண்றீங்கன்னு, போலீஸ்லே புகார் செய்துவிடுவேன்’னு மிரட்டுவார்.
உமாவின் இன்னொரு மோசமான குணம் _ சந்தேகம். எனக்கு ரசிகைகள் யாராவது செல்போனில் மெஸேஜ் அனுப்பினால் போதும். உடனே என் போனை வாங்கி, ‘யார் இவள்? எதுக்காக உங்களுக்கு அனுப்பணும். நீங்க எதுக்குப் பதில் மெஸேஜ் அனுப்பறீங்க’ என்றெல்லாம் கேட்பார். இதுவரை, அவரது செல்போனை வாங்கி என்ன மெஸேஜ் வந்திருக்கு, யார் அனுப்பியிருக்கான்னு நான் பார்த்ததேயில்லை. காரணம், எனக்கு அவர் மேலே நம்பிக்கை இருந்தது. அவருக்குத்தான் என் மேலே நம்பிக்கை இல்லை.
உமா பிரசவத்திற்காக மலேசியா போனபிறகுதான் பிரச்னை ஆரம்பித்தது. என்னை, ‘நீங்கள் மலேசியாவிற்கு வந்துடுங்க. இங்கே ஏதாவது வேலை பார்த்துக்கொள்ளலாம்’ என்று ஓயாமல் கூப்பிட்டுக் கொண்டேயிருந்தார். நான் அதற்கு, ‘பாட நிறைய வாய்ப்புகள் வருகிறது. எல்லா மியூசிக் டைரக்டர்களும் எனக்கு ரொம்ப சப்போர்ட்டாக இருக்காங்க. மலேசியாவில் மியூசிக் இன்டஸ்ட்ரி கிடையாது. நான் அங்கு வந்து நைட் கிளப்பிலா பாட முடியும்? அதனால், அங்கு வருவது, என்னோட கேரியருக்குச் சரிப்பட்டு வராது’ என்றேன்.
உமாவுக்குக் குழந்தை பிறந்த பிறகு, தொடர்ந்து என்னை மலேசியா வரச்சொல்லி வற்புறுத்திக்கிட்டே இருந்தார். நான் ஒரு கட்டத்தில், ‘வர முடியாது’ என்று உறுதியாகக் கூறிவிட்டேன்.
நான் மறுத்து விட்டேனே என்ற ஆத்திரத்தில் வரதட்சணை கேட்டு கொடுமைப்படுத்தியதாக , சென்னை ஹைகோர்ட்டில் வழக்குப் போட்டார். என்னுடைய நல்ல நேரம், எங்கள் திருமணத்தை விருகம்பாக்கம் ரிஜிஸ்டர் ஆபீஸில் பதிவு செய்து இருந்தோம். அப்போ… அவரே ‘வரதட்சணை கொடுக்கவுமில்லை; வாங்கவுமில்லை’ என்று அதிகாரிகள் முன்பு கையெழுத்துப் போட்டிருந்தார். அதை வைத்து நான் கோர்ட்டில் மனு போட்டதும், உமா போட்ட மனு தள்ளுபடி ஆகிவிட்டது. எப்போது என் மீது வரதட்சணை கேட்டு கொடுமைப்படுத்தியதாக வழக்குப் போட்டு என்னை ஜெயிலில் தள்ள நினைத்தாரோ, அப்போதே அவர் மீது இருந்த கொஞ்ச நஞ்ச பிரியமும் அடியோடு போய்விட்டது. உடனே நான் டைவர்ஸ் கேட்டு மனு போட்டேன்.
அதன்பிறகு, எங்களுக்குள் எந்தத் தொடர்புமில்லாத நிலையில், இப்போது சமீபத்தில் சென்னை வந்தபோது, மீண்டும் நான் வரதட்சணை கேட்டதாகவும், என் அம்மா அப்பா அடித்துத் துன்புறுத்தினார்கள் என்றும் போலீஸில் மறுபடியும் புகார். இது தவிர, கல்யாணத்திற்குப் பதினைந்து லட்சம் அவர்கள் செலவு செய்ததாகவும் குறிப்பிட்டிருக்கிறார். திருமணம் நடந்தபோது, செலவில் பாதியை நானும் செய்துள்ளேன் என்பது தான் நிஜம். எங்கள் வக்கீலை அழைத்துச் சென்று போலீஸிடம், ஏற்கெனவே இது கோர்ட் தள்ளுபடி செய்த புகார் என்பதை எடுத்துச் சொன்ன பிறகுதான், அந்தப் பெண் தங்களை ஏமாற்றிவிட்ட விஷயம் போலீஸாருக்கு புரிந்தது.
இந்த இடத்தில் முக்கியமான ஒரு விஷயத்தைக் குறிப்பிட வேண்டும். என் அம்மாவும் அப்பாவும் அடித்தார்கள், உதைத்தார்கள் என்று அவர்கள் மீது புகார் கொடுத்திருக்கிறாரே… அதில் ஒரு துளியும் உண்மையல்ல. உமா மீது என் அம்மாவுக்குக் கொள்ளைப்பிரியம். சாலிக்கிராமத்திலுள்ள என் வீட்டில் ஓர் ஊஞ்சல் உண்டு. அதில் உமா உட்கார்ந்து ஆடுவார். ஒரு குழந்தைக்குச் சோறு ஊட்டுவது போலவே, கையில் சோற்றுக் கிண்ணத்தை வைத்துக் கொண்டு ஆடும் ஊஞ்சலின் பின்னேயே ஓடி ஓடி உமாவுக்குச் சோறு ஊட்டுவார், என் அம்மா.
ஒரு முறை உமா மசக்கை வாந்தி எடுத்தபோது, அதைக் கைகளில் ஏந்தியவர் என் அப்பா. என்னைப் பழிவாங்க வேண்டும் என்பதற்காக அவர்களையும் அந்த லிஸ்ட்டில் சேர்த்துக்கொள்வது என்ன நியாயம்?
குழந்தை பிறந்து ஒன்றே முக்கால் வருடமாகப் போகிறது. நானாவது என் மகனை ஒரே ஒரு தடவைப் பார்த்திருக்கிறேன். என் பெற்றோர் அந்தக் குழந்தையைப் பார்த்ததே இல்லை. கருப்பா, சிவப்பா என்றுகூடத் தெரியாது.
என்னைப் பழிவாங்கும் நோக்கத்துக்காக இந்தியாவிற்கு வரும் போதெல்லாம், புதுப்புது புகாரைக் கொடுக்கிறார். தேவையில்லாமல் எங்கள் குடும்ப நண்பரான பிரதிபா ஹரியை, என்னுடன் தொடர்புபடுத்தி சமீபத்தில் புகார் கொடுத்திருக்கிறார். பிரதிபா ரொம்ப ரொம்ப நல்ல பெண். என்னை ஃபாரின் சேனல் ஒன்றிற்குப் பேட்டி எடுத்திருக்கிறார். அவர் ஏற்பாடு செய்த மேடைக் கச்சேரியில் பாடியிருக்கிறேன்.
அடுத்த மாதம் அந்தப் பெண்ணிற்குத் திருமணம். பத்திரிகைகளில் தவறாக செய்தி வந்ததும் குடும்பத்தோடு வந்து எங்களிடம் ரொம்ப வருத்தப்பட்டார்’’ என்று கூறும் ஹரீஷ் தொடர்ந்து, ‘‘செப்டம்பர் 11ஆம் தேதி எங்களுக்கு விவாகரத்து கிடைக்குமென்ற சூழ்நிலையில், இப்படி உமாவைத் தூண்டிவிட்டு மீண்டும் மீண்டும் எனக்கு டார்ச்சர் கொடுக்க வேண்டுமென்று யோசனை சொல்வது அவருடைய அக்காதான்.
உமா எனக்கு எஸ்.எம்.எஸ். அனுப்பி, ‘உன் வாழ்க்கையைக் கெடுத்து உன்னை நடுத்தெருவில் நிற்க வைக்கிறேன் பார்’ என்று சவால்விட்டிருக்கிறார். அந்தப் பெண்ணின் செயலை நினைத்து சிரிப்புதான் வருகிறது’’ _ வேதனையுடன் சிரிக்கிறார் ஹரீஷ் ராகவேந்திரா.
ஹரீஷ் ராகவேந்திராவின் குற்றச்சாட்டுகள் குறித்து உமாதேவி என்ன சொல்கிறார் என்று தெரிந்துகொள்ள அவரைத் தொடர்பு கொள்ள முயன்றோம். இதுவரை அவரைத் தொடர்புகொள்ள முடியவில்லை. றீ
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35 பதில்கள் -க்கு “Harish Raghavendra – Kumudam Coverage of his Marriage Life”
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Usha said
Dear Friends,
I need justice 4 my friend Miss Uma Devi, Kuala Lumpur. She married Tamil Playback singer pombalai porriki & drunker Harish Raghavendra. He cheats her & torches her 4 dowry & asks her abortion baby 4 glamour. Pour hot water on her / burnt her with cigarette. Uma run 2 Malaysia 2 save deliver the baby. He admires her when come 4 singing competition in Malaysia. He runs after her like dog 4 marriage. Now throw her like rubbish. He murders a young women life. Ithu darma ma . Ithu neethiya. Media only publish what he said. Media should hear both parties & publish news. Although we are all different country still we are Indian. Indian carnatic is God gifted eesai. Who using & learning this eesai must be clean all ways. Oru throgighee paadalama. Should Indian Tamil Film allowed this?
Don’t listen to his song and don’t allow his songs in your country. Don’t watch the movie his song release. Don’t buy cd song that he sings. This will teach him a good lesson.
Nikita said
First off it is sad to hear about the heartbreak two people undergo with a split,unfortunately there is a child involved too.I don’t believe that one person alone can be responsible for a break up,sadly with indian matrimonial law the male is easily a target of a retaliation from the woman.Harish is a phenomenon and many girls would’ve married him-if he married Uma for love,it is hard to believe that there would be any dowry and abuse involved-it maybe just a cultural incompatibility.I hope Uma realises that Harish has legal rights over his child and she could face abduction charges in a court of law.Though marriages have been legalised in this day and age,it is better for two individuals to accept their differences and move on with life-Facing these libellous charges must be really hard on Harish-Harish,my wishes to you to emerge out of this and continue reaching out with your music-To Uma,every action has an equal and opposite reaction-there is something called Karma,i hope you find your peace and focus more on being a mother and hopefully find a happier life.Good luck!
mala said
THIS IS A GOOD LESSON FOR ALL THOSE MALAYSIAN WOMEN WHO WISHES TO MARRY FOREIGNERS LIKE THIS!!!
NOW WE MALAYSIANS CAN’T SEEM TO GET ANY JUSTICE AT ALL, AND SOME ARE BLAMING US WOMEN, COS THIS IS THE SIMPLEST WAY TO GET OUT OF THE PROB.
I PERSONNALLY DONT KNOW HARISH OR UMA. BUT, I DO KNOW THAT MEN WHO ARE SERIOUSLY IN LOVE CAN DEMAND FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD. THEY CAN EVEN TURN TO BEING THE UGLIEST MONSTER OR CREATURE IN THE UNIVERSE. I HAD A LESSON MYSELF AND I KNOW THE DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF MEN IN THIS WORLD. THE GOOD AND THE BAD !!!!!
NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT, I KNOW. SOME ARE CHOKKA THANGAM. BUT IN THE CASE OF UMA, IT IS TRULY PATHETIC. I KNOW ALL WOULD THINK THAT WE ARE SIDING UMA COS SHE IS A MALAYSIAN. NO WAY!! BUT THEERE IS SOME TRUTH TO THIS……
HARISH IS ONE FO THE MOST FAMOUS INDIAN SINGERS WITH GOOD LOOKS AND GREAT CAPABILITIES, BUT SAD, HHE LACKS OF SOMETHING. SO NO ONE WOULD FIND FAULT WITH HIM, AND THUS BLAAME POOR UMA FOR ANYTHING THAT HAS HAPPENDED.
IF A GIRL IS NOT ABLE TO BEAR A CHILD, THE ENTIRE BLAME IS ON HER, BUT IF A MAN IS IMPOTENT, THE WHOLE MATTER IS CLOSED!!!!! ENNAA ULAGAG
IF HARISH HAD REQUESTED THAT UMA ABORT THE CHILD, THEN WHY ON EARTH SHOULD HE FIGHT FOR LEGAL CUSTODY OF THE CHILD?
UMA, IF I WERE YOU I WOULD JUST MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE, BE A FULL TIME PARENT TO MY CHILD, TEACH ALL GOOD VALUES TO MY BABY AND BRING HIM/HER UP AS A GOD FEARING INDIAN WHO WOULD MAKE OUR COUNTRY PROUD.just as what i am currently doing and i am very successful today…….i no
Maya said
Harish,
I know you have a lot of better things to do than sit and read scandalous forums like these but if you happened to read this by happenstance,please know that you have a lot of support-I don’t know about malaysians but i am an Indian gal in the USA born and brought up in India.Looks like some people have it as a full time job to sit and defame you-i hope you come out of this unscathed.Whatever you do,i wish you will not give up on being there on your son’s life-remember you are the father and are entitled to equal custody of your child.
Take care and shine like the star you are.
Good luck
priya dharshni said
harish,
i know as a very good singer.but dont know you guys undergone with lot of pain and suffer.if u guys are free lancer you can easly say bye and split.a small child has involved.i know it is not soo easy to rejoin after all these happened.sametime you both have a response to bring your child in a good manner.i like you more than that i like your voice verymuch.i love music.i want you to lead a good life with your wife.afterall it is your life to decied.we all can suggest things but it is you guys to decide.i’ll be your good fan and wellwisher always.i’ll be leaving to canada soon.but still i’ll be sending comments..you should sing more and more songs. i wish you all success in your life.all the best.
Venkat said
This is really disturbing. Those are flase accusations. I cant beleive a women is doing this. Usha has used horrible words against Harish. Usha, Mind your language and words.
Harish, my best wishes for your peace of mind. There are many people like me to support you. You have all legal rights for your child custody.
As Kalpana rightly said in this forum, there should be understanding between couples.
rantaur said
Listen Usha..i think u hav used real bad words on a respectable singer like Harish.I think u should control ur language and tongue.Jus because Uma is ur friend,u cant go about swearin on harish.And by the way..who are u to say dont listen to his songs and dont buy his song cd’s??If u love ur friend,better find her a nice guy and make her settle down.I know Harish personally and i dont think the way u spoke was good enuf!He’s a good singer here,and he wil continue to be in the hearts of all..
Forecast said
Dear friends,
Justice for Ms.Uma Devi(Ambilai porriki)???
Why does she need it???
Harish Ragavendra a BAD GUY now???
Listen everyone there who supports this lady over here….and to dear Usha itself….if shes your friend…Do you know what is she up too…shes into others people married life now..flirtig with other peoples husband….if she has been thru all the things u mentioned..why the hell she wants to ruined others family…. i bet you that harish didt admired here but she tried to flirt with him…try doing a dna test to she whether the baby was his or not…maybe the baby even had a different dad i seriously think that what harish did was seriously right….if she was my wife indeed u will see me slaughtering here into pieces…if u dont belive me….watch out whats coming for ur friend….shes in deep shit…
Harish supporter said
hey harish!
I love your voice. Such heavenly voice u’ll go a loooong way! I live in Singapore and I know how exactly these singaporeans think. U’ve got such good fame..yen pa..ivathaan kedachaalaa? People here have no morals or culture! All they know is how to extort money and make babies. And ethaavathu nalla purushan kedachaana avlothaan! Govindaaaa Gooooovinda!! Ivanunga elaam nalla irukamaataanga nu ivagulukulaiye oru low self-esteem. Athaan antha maaathiri santhegam padraanga. neenga mattum illai saar india lernthu vantha indians kandaaley ivangalluku pidikaathu. They think we are all very proud even though we might have never known them. For girls who come from india and have any rivalry with them, they will try to bring them as looooww as possible. As for guys..intha maathiri kodumai..or otherwise…melle vizhunthu vizhunthu a to z elaathaiyum naa solramaathiri kekanum nu solluvaanga. And if u don’t do like they tell..they’ll try to something like this only to putting us into trouble.
And even if we don’t bother about them…knowing them. They will call us thimiru for not speaking to them. Singaporean Indians are real psychos. My sister herself experienced horrible problems with them. Just becuz she’s good looking and studys well, her own so-called best friend is jealous. And for that, she put blames of all sorts on my sister in her high-school. And attached lots of guys in the school to my sister’s name. She even went around telling the whole school about all these false allegations. Bastards and Bitches all these Singpaoreans!!
You don’t worry Mr. Harish. Neenga innoru nalla ponnaa paarthu kalyanam pannittu santhoshamaa irukkalaam. Ivungalekkelaam antha emotions feeelings ethumey kedaiyaathu! Chumma elaam oru time pass thaan. Unga manaivi mattum illai saar inga irukravanga elaarum appadiye thaan! YOU HAVE US!! WE WILL SUPPORT YOU!!
Dr.Sri Latha said
Uma devi is a ambalai porikki!!!! THIS MESSAGE IS TO HER PARENTS AND FRIENDS. She , her son and her parents have been our patient in myhusbands clinic in jalan ipoh. we have a 2 year old daughter and all of them know. and recently i found out she has gone to the extend of asking my husband to make love to her via sms and lots more. and what the hell is she doing in the doctor’s rest room and late nights and for hours with my husband?? she comes there practically everyday after i shifted to work in another clinic. now i am living alone with my daughter and maid and hoping my husband would realise about this bitch. she has ruined 12 years of our relationship and her whole family is supportive of this. Im very sure mr.Harish is innocent and am very sorry to know his son kavin had to suffer like how my daughter is. she is missing her father so much and om\nly god knows. i will continue to pray for justice.
Vidya Appasamy said
DR.Sri Latha,
As you have published this on the web,as a lawyer I would advise you to make sure you have your facst and proves on this accusations.Hope that Miss.Uma doesn’t know about this allegations from you and that you have publish it in media.I suppose I would advise her to take a defamation suit against you and I would think her advocates will advise her to do.
tulasi said
hi Ms Vitya
Vitya i totally agree with you. Normally ladies get annoyed with domestic problems. therefore they tend to pin point on others…. being parties to their domestic problems. they fail to realise they may or might have been the couse for the domestic problems.
Im shocked that even professionals are bound into this category. Dr Lata…. you have runied your 12 years relationship by publishing this note about your husband and others are surely not aprty to this. Get the guts to accept blames rather than pointing finger towards others.
Cythia said
Hey Vidya and Tulasi,
Hats off for you comments.
Dr.SriLatha,
I would agree that you destroyed you marriage by putting statements like that on the web.How cheap mentality do you have? Now we know why the hell you are having domestic problem.It is all about you and your attitude.I should say I pity your daugther that she is growing with a person with your attitude.
tulasi said
3oth July 2007
Dear Cythia,
Well im glad there are nice and wise people out there to realise that what’s a foolish person this dr lata can be. im really upset with her foolish comments. if she is really upset with her husband, she can always have a heart to heart talk with her husband and settle the problem amicablly but looking at her attitude, im sure she just wants some pityful support for her wrong doing. that’s so stupid..
i really pity the baby girl.. hope the baby doesn’t carry her character.Thanks cythia for your wise comments.
Raj said
I don’t know whether the above accusation towards Uma is true but I believe it is not.I know her as well as Harish personally,she had her differences with her husband.things didn’t work out well.He went his way and she went her way.No deny,she has the custody of the child which she is doing great as a mother.I suppose they are living their life with no issues between them. People are should let others live their lives.It can be Harish or Uma for the matter,don’t talk or publish their personal life on net.We all should have the decency to respect their personal life and not to intrude.People like Dr.Latha should just go home and sort you problems with your husband and don’t put the blame on another party.About Harish and Uma,I think they have put a stop to their differences and its time for all of us to put a stop on talking about marriage that was over and gone.Live and Let live.
Vibha said
“kanaa kaanum kaalangal” is sung by Karthik and not Harish. Harish has sung “Kanaa Kaanum Kaalnangal” . Why isnt harish singing as many songs as he used to sing before? Does that anything to do wid his personal life? Hopefully not. I am his big fan, Hope he sings more songs. for directors like ARR an HJ .
Vibha said
“kan pesum varthaigal” is sung by Karthik and not Harish. Harish has sung “Kanaa Kaanum Kaalnangal” . Why isnt harish singing as many songs as he used to sing before? Does that anything to do wid his personal life? Hopefully not. I am his big fan, Hope he sings more songs. for directors like ARR an HJ .
meena said
why vidya, dr.latha and thulasi fighting. Harish poodai, not ambila. Uma very good she adopted child to close, Harish weakness. Harish not 100% male. He unable u give any baby for any women.
home grown said
frankly speaking harish is an absolute coward. He just wants women in bed but cannot give any devotion to them. he got what he deserved. and he will lead a lonely life. Hell just keep crying to every stranger online. His career is pretty much over. News has it he recen tly proposed to singer chinmayi and her mom made a big scene at aahhaa fm. what a loser
mrs.Sireesha Harish said
I married to harish. 10/3/2006 or 28 thaimaatham parthibha varrudam 10. 30 am at Thirumuruganathaswamy Temple, Thirumuruganpoondi, Avinashi, coimbatore. My name sireesha. Father tamil. Mother telegu.Three years elder than harish.I’m from middle class family. When my parent fined groom for me. All groom ask for money and jewelry as dowry. Lucky I meet a good man like harish. H e married me with out a single dowry.Harish first wife is Uma from Malaysian. She also very good person.She doesn’t understanding his value. She goes to divorce him. I don’t why media talks bad about him. He is a very good man. Very clean habits. No drinking/ smoking.Last time i buy cd and cassette to hear his song. Now he is belongs to me.If in india man have job like a king. the more higher job the more ladies have to pay dowry. Actually according to history older people give gift for their daughter. This gift they used in her new home. Now the groom family demand for dowry.If bride family not able to fulfil dowry. The groom side will divorce her or killed her. In india still poor family put girl baby sleep because they unable to pay dowry in future.
We have 4 months baby girl name vasanthal devi. marriage life goes well. Pls the advisory in this column don’t involve in other person personal. As the fan you only can request and give comment about his service not his personal life.Imagine yourself in his position and see. He is not public property. He also a human like you.
Thank you.
Sujatha said
Srisheesa,
Congrats and married life.So Harish being a good,wonderful husband married you on 10/3/2006 while still being married to Uma.Great Man!!!!Bravo.As a wife,did you know when he got divorce from Uma?If you are not sure please find out and then write your marriage date accordingly.
Your wonderful husband has ditched his son for money and I hope you so called daugther don’t get the same faith.If he had married you without any single cent of dowry coz he took enough from Uma to sponsor his next married life.
He has lost his image in the industry and people has not good things to say about him and his family.Not forgetting Chinmayi mother making a scene in the fm station.That was a gala time to see that man.
Harish getting into spiritual way….my foot.Charity begins at home.Take care of you son Mr.Harish then God will answer you spiritual journey.
mrs.Sireesha Harish said
sister Sujatha please mind your word throw it to my husband. Ambilange apadi eppadi then irupange. As I told you before both of them are good but less understanding. I don’t mind if harish is not divorce also. What is wrong a man have two wife? If a wife have two husband and living in one family that is wrong. The main things are married according to culture and he must able to support the family. That is very important. My husband is not vakarthavan to ask pichai from own wife.Who said to you that he demand for money from uma.? We married simple in temple. jewelry for marriage including thali harish spend. Family is not a game. Wife is not discipline teacher and husband not student! There is a limit to control. Sister Sujatha you are only fan and don’t know about another person. You cannot judge him by reading newspapers and magazine information.
From your words I can guess you are not married. Remember family life is different from unmarried life. You have to adjust with all situation and relation. Then only family works smooth. You also a girl. In future will be another person wife, in-law and mother. Is good to drag another girl name? He is doing his prayer or not is his problem. Only I , uma and our in laws worried about that. God belongs to all. All of us are God children. You have no rights to give saabam to others.
Who said his industry bad? He is doing better than before. All false news.
THANK YOU. Take care sister sujatha
nandini said
Hi Sireesha Harish,
All the best for your married life. Why are you answering for this questions from others. Sooriyana pathu nai kolaicha naikuthan kastam.. Harish is such a person and you nneed to worry for this comments… go a head with your married life..
mrs.Sireesha Harish said
Hi Nandini,
Thanks for your good wishes. I feel very hurt when people speak about my husband Mr.Harish. The only should see how performance not his personal life. In movie also people should take the goods. Do not think the movie can spoil us. All is based on people. Parent’s responsibility is to teach the good and bad for children. You can see in Tamil debate they gives comment the movie. The only think I can say here please see with entertainment lenses, none never feel anything wrong.
Ramasubbu said
You people are talking about sex related torture. how about age related torture. i am 59 years old. My wife and son aged 24 years think that I have an affair with 63 years old lady and torture me daily. My son physically assaults me; grabs my phone and tells everyone that I have gone crazy and am under treatment. my wife grabs my landline and talks rudely to the callers. i am under house arrest. What is the remedy? isn’t there any remedy at all for me?
tulasi said
H there,
Just a bit suprise when lady especially Ms Sireesha claims to be Harish’s wife. Please dont try to fool other here.As some of us really know whats happening in his life.
With all due respect, if you really like someone like Mr Harish by all means please do approch him let him know your intention. Dont claim false publicity over things thats never happened. Please grow up.
I am sure are married and delivered a baby in your dreams. I know personally knows things thats happening in his life…. and i am NOT proud to say that. I just dont understand how can someone like claim such false informations. Thats worrible.
Why in earth do lady chase after a man who has destroyed a lady life and spolied a young baby’s life…. get educated lady. See things in the right and positive way.
I am sorry if i had siad something that might hurt someone’s feeling but get real……. life is not piece of cake, that can be shares with many wives or husband……..
Many might have the policy that every guy or woman has right to change and get into right path in life BUT what if he DOESN”T? Knowing something is bad or hurtful and still going for is very childish.
Mr Harish is not person will give someone life withput any benefir derived from that particualr person…. please understand that. He is not such a foolish man to fall someone froma simple lifestyle family. so get carried away with that new. And Ms Sireesha is teeling the true ask her to publish a married photo taken on the 10th March 2006.
Until that Ms Siressha please dont utter any of your false informations. We are NOT that stupid.
tulasi said
Hi ms sireesha,
No reply for my request. Whatlah why run after poodai paiyan like harish. HARISH POODAI PAYAN.harish homosexual. He can’t any satisfy ladies. Go and married nice guy and settle your life.
I know personally knows things thats happening in his life…. and i am NOT proud to say that. I just dont want u waste your life pls.
Don’t be stupid ok.
sivanu said
dear ardent devotees of uma………….this womwn has ruined another couples relationship. Thats a fact of life, ive seen with my own eyes how the family now has broken into 2 since this women has entered into Dr. sri Lathas life. HEy you women out ther. realise what goes around comes around…so u Uma Theve, u will suffer in near time to come. if she has been thru so much of torment in her relationship wit harish…. wat the hell she is doing in other peoples relationship. i swear u will suffer my dear uma. The god is just watching you. To those who strongly tinks tat uma is innocent….i tink u too hav the same mentality as hers….stealing flirting wit other peoples husband….as for Latha, god is wit u, i will pray 4 you. ur husband will come back to u.
ramasubbu said
Dai saivanu un soothula appearna pii wipe first. Aapparum aduthavan sootha paakalam. Teach your wife to be good. Then automatically harish poodai change. A man wife run away because he homosexual and not able to find better profit. harish kaiyalaakathavan. harish 100% aambalai illai. Ask him to prove that first! ha! ha! heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. thu!thu!He don’t how to control a lady.harish you like what color saree, jaakaytu, valaiyal, oothiyanam? bye harish akka.
Chitra said
Uma is alreay engaged and soon to tie a not,to a renowed person in the society.Sivanu and Latha,please start ooking at your problem with your own husband.Harish Raghavendra fell for Uma and I am sure she wouldn’t look at any person that doesn’t come par to HR.If any beautiful women talks to you people’s husband ,I suppose you just start a rumours about an affair. Please look into how to keep your own husbands and not blame it on others.Looking at you both’s mind set,I can just image how bad can your husbands be.
ramasubbu said
happy marriage life to uma. you have taken a mature decision. leave the 100 % poodai / no backbone guy. theyvidiya payalai (harish raghavendra)neenaithu life waste panathey.
tulasi said
Sivanu and Dr Latha,
Dont both of you have better job than looking into other people’s issues….. howcome you sivanu supporting that dr latha so much, are you having any links with her? Affairs is something happening for both of you rite? Dr Latha likes accused
ple havin affair and you support that contention, wow both of make a wonderful couple…… anyway beware that you will control by that Dr latha and end up having NO . . . . ( fill up your own)
im sure that question is very hurting and thats how other will feel to. So the only wise way is shut up, mind your business.If can advise Dr latha shut her mouth and dont bitch around about her husband and others.
If she really did love her husband, she would have thought thousand and one time before uttering any rubbish statement via internet.Well I can say…. she just wants international cheap publicity….. well for her cheap thoughts and cheap attitude thats whats she deserves.
Compare Uma and latha (dr) wonder whether she deserves that title?????? uma is many better, although she had issues with the ex husband, they were quite about it, outsides like you latha are the one who made issue out of nothing…… but latha just pissed on her own face by tarnishing her husband;s name….. so now you compare, which kind of lady would you want has you partner????????
sivanu, learn is undersatnd issue and then pen down, dont act smart and later look like . . . . . . . ( fill up )
anusha london said
hi harish this is anu (srilanka)for readers i know very well about harish he is perfect gentleman.forget that bitch.start new life.god bless u…………..well wisher anu
london gangesters(srilanka) said
TAKE CARE harish ( E N E M Y S )MOTHER FUCKERS.
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